How to Choose a Flower Girl Dress: Size, Colour, Length and Accessories

Choosing a flower girl dress requires more than matching it with the wedding colours. The child needs a dress that fits properly, allows easy movement and suits the ceremony venue. 

Start shopping three to six months before the wedding when possible. This gives you time to compare sizes, order the dress and arrange any required alterations. 

Consider the Child’s Age and Role 

A young flower girl may need a simple dress that is easy to walk in. An older child may feel comfortable in a longer or more detailed gown. 

Think about what she will do during the ceremony. Will she carry a basket, walk beside another child or stand with the bridal party? A heavy skirt or tight bodice can make these tasks difficult. 

Ask the child how the dress feels. She may not understand fabric or sizing, but she can tell you whether something feels itchy, tight or too heavy. 

Choose the Right Dress Length 

Flower girl dresses commonly come in knee, tea and full-length styles. 

Knee-Length Dresses 

A knee-length dress gives the legs more freedom and may suit younger children, outdoor weddings and warmer weather. 

Jullia Bridal’s Alexa flower girl and communion dress is a knee-length silk design with a scoop neckline, sleeveless bodice, low U-shaped back and a large bow. 

Check where the hem sits while the child is standing and moving. The exact length can vary according to her height and body proportions. 

Tea-Length Dresses 

A tea-length dress falls below the knee but above the ankle. It gives a formal appearance without placing fabric close to the floor. 

The Mia dress from Jullia Bridal is an A-line, tea-length design made with sparkle chiffon. It has a soft lace scoop neckline and flutter sleeves. 

This length can help reduce the chance of the child stepping on the skirt, but she should still try it with her wedding shoes. 

Full-Length Dresses 

Afull-length dress creates a formal look and may suit a traditional ceremony. It needs more careful fitting because the hem should not interfere with walking. 

The Rosa dress has a full-length A-line skirt made from soft tulle, a lace-covered bodice, quarter-length sleeves and a lace V-shaped back. 

Ask the child to walk, turn and climb a step while wearing the dress. Alter the hem when needed rather than expecting her to hold the skirt throughout the day. 

Select a Comfortable Silhouette 

A-line dresses are fitted through the upper section and widen gradually towards the hem. They provide room around the legs without creating too much skirt volume. 

Princess and ball gown styles have fuller skirts. Jullia Bridal’s Jasmin dress has a princess silhouette, built-in petticoat, floral lace bodice and tulle skirt. 

A full skirt can look suitable for a formal wedding, but it may feel heavier. Check whether the child can sit comfortably and move through the venue without bumping into chairs or decorations. 

Take Accurate Measurements 

Jullia Bridal offers flower girl dresses in sizes AU 1 to 14, with custom-size options available for selected dresses. Contact the boutique when a required size sits outside the listed range. 

Measure the child’s: 

• Bust 
• Waist 
• Hips 
• Height 

Take measurements over light clothing and keep the tape level. Do not pull it too tightly. 

Use the size chart for the individual dress rather than selecting a size based only on the child’s age. Children of the same age can have different measurements and heights. 

Allow for expected growth when ordering several months ahead, but do not choose a dress that is excessively large. Ask the boutique for guidance if the child sits between sizes. 

Match the Colour with the Wedding 

White, off-white and soft pastel dresses can work with many wedding colour schemes. Jullia Bridal also offers colour choices on selected designs, depending on current availability. 

The flower girl dress does not need to be the exact same colour as the bridesmaid dresses. A white or off-white dress can be connected to the bridal party through a sash, hair accessory, flowers or basket decoration. 

Jullia Bridal suggests using fabric left from bridesmaid alterations to make a matching sash when an exact dye match is difficult. 

Compare colours under natural light. Ivory, white and off-white can appear similar online but look different beside the bridal gown. 

Choose Fabric for the Season 

Jullia Bridal’s flower girl range includes satin, tulle, chiffon and lace. 

Chiffon and lighter tulle may suit warmer conditions. Satin can create a smoother and more structured look. Lace adds texture but should feel soft against the child’s skin. 

Check the lining around the neckline, armholes and waist. A beautiful dress can become uncomfortable when lace edges, seams or embellishments rub against the skin. 

For an outdoor wedding, think about grass, dirt and wind. A shorter dress may be easier to manage than a full-length skirt. 

Plan the Ordering Timeline 

Jullia Bridal recommends shopping for a flower girl dress around three to six months before the wedding and ordering it at least two months before the date. 

Selected dresses have these production options: 

• Standard orders: two to four months 
• Priority orders: one to two months with an additional $50 
• Express orders: two to four weeks with an additional $100 

Production and delivery are separate timeframes. Confirm the expected completion and shipping dates before placing the order. 

Product availability and ordering services can differ between styles, sizes and colours. 

Complete the Look with Accessories 

Choose accessories after deciding on the dress. 

Jullia Bridal’s flower girl accessory range includes: 

• Tiaras 
• Flower crowns 
• Hairbands 
• Baskets 
• Ring pillows 
• Robes 

A detailed lace or embellished dress may only need a simple hairpiece. A plain satin or chiffon gown may work with a more noticeable tiara or flower crown. 

Make sure the headpiece stays secure without causing pressure. The basket should also be light enough for the child to carry comfortably. 

Avoid adding too many items. The child may already need to manage the dress, shoes and basket while remembering when to walk. 

Complete a Final Comfort Check 

Before the wedding, ask the flower girl to wear the full outfit at home for a short period. 

Check whether she can: 

• Walk without stepping on the hem 
• Sit comfortably 
• Raise her arms 
• Carry the basket 
• Wear the shoes without pain 
• Use the bathroom without difficulty 

Pack a simple backup kit containing tissues, safety pins, comfortable shoes and a light cardigan when suitable.